In the present We are constantly told to consider the future. While we're not looking for the next job or thinking about what could be happening in the next five years we're instructed to prepare for our retirement and how much we'll need to save. It's impossible to be present and take in all the joy life offers. This is something I did until one night that changed my life completely. The night began with a few beers at an establishment together with my girlfriend Dani however, it ended up with me meeting a wonderful man who gave me something I didn't think could be possible - the opportunity to be free from my troubles and begin all over.